Friday, August 21, 2009
23 weeks
Thursday, May 28, 2009
New News
I just realized this morning that I have not made a VERY important post on our site. With Twitter and FB around it may be obsolete. Anyway...
WE'RE PREGNANT...again. We found out just after Easter and are due right before Christmas. I'm almost through my first trimester already (11 weeks on Saturday). Looking forward to getting some energy and consistent eating habits back.
The girls are really excited and keeping asking if the baby is ready to come out yet. They go back and forth on whether they want a baby sister or brother. Fun times talking about how God makes each of us special.
WE'RE PREGNANT...again. We found out just after Easter and are due right before Christmas. I'm almost through my first trimester already (11 weeks on Saturday). Looking forward to getting some energy and consistent eating habits back.
The girls are really excited and keeping asking if the baby is ready to come out yet. They go back and forth on whether they want a baby sister or brother. Fun times talking about how God makes each of us special.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Diving Back In
I was blessed to be able to be able to attend the ladies beach retreat this year entitled "Being a Biblical Woman in a Modern World". Author Carolyn McCulley ("Radical Womanhood") came and spoke to us about the history of women's roles and reputation in light of feminist movement. It was a refreshing change from the typical emotional hype some retreats can produce. It was great to hear the origin of a lot of the lies and pressures I feel as a stay at home mom and a wife who submits. I would certainly recommend her book. I was also able to make stronger connections with ladies I have only known in passing on Sundays and to reconnect with some who have lost touch. Many thanks to Michelle and Nana for their phenomenal hard work to pull it off.
Now it's life as usual. I'm finding it difficult to bring my mind back to the worlds of a toddler & preschooler. It's getting better.
Now it's life as usual. I'm finding it difficult to bring my mind back to the worlds of a toddler & preschooler. It's getting better.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Weekend Visit to Charlotte
We got a chance this past weekend to send the girls to Winston and head down to Charlotte. Two of my sisters live down there and invited us for a visit. Chris drove down Friday morning in a rental to work a job fair at UNCC-School of Architecture. I drove down later Friday afternoon. We had a great evening filled with fajitas and Sattergories. I have now decided that I cannot play that game anymore. The subjective judging drives me crazy...as crazy as some of the answers given.
It was a beautiful day on Saturday so we played Cornhole together and then split wives/husbands. The men went and played Frisbee golf and my sisters and I went to UNCC to see what they have done with the campus since we left. It was great to reminisce. We had dinner at Lupies Cafe, mmmm. Chris and I had greasy burgers that were so delicious. Then we played Taboo and Settlers of Catan until very late.
We enjoyed visiting Abby and Patrick's church on Sunday. They each gave their testimony in Sunday school. I was moved by it as well as the music and message. We had a relaxing lunch before heading back on the road to pick the girls up in Winston. It was so nice to be able to spend some time with my sisters without having to juggle the girls. Next time we'll take them with us by request of their Uncle Patrick.
Thanks to Mimi and Papa for allowing us to get away and for delighting in keeping their grand kids for a weekend.
It was a beautiful day on Saturday so we played Cornhole together and then split wives/husbands. The men went and played Frisbee golf and my sisters and I went to UNCC to see what they have done with the campus since we left. It was great to reminisce. We had dinner at Lupies Cafe, mmmm. Chris and I had greasy burgers that were so delicious. Then we played Taboo and Settlers of Catan until very late.
We enjoyed visiting Abby and Patrick's church on Sunday. They each gave their testimony in Sunday school. I was moved by it as well as the music and message. We had a relaxing lunch before heading back on the road to pick the girls up in Winston. It was so nice to be able to spend some time with my sisters without having to juggle the girls. Next time we'll take them with us by request of their Uncle Patrick.
Thanks to Mimi and Papa for allowing us to get away and for delighting in keeping their grand kids for a weekend.
Thursday, March 05, 2009
charity:water
Our church coffee shop donates all profits to charity:water. They love Jesus and are teaching Africans how to dig their own wells so they can have clean water. 80% of all their fatal illnesses come from their lack of clean water. Join the cause. Do the birthday challenge. Have people donate in $ in the amount of your birthday year instead of buying you gifts. It has also been brought to my attention that with 20% of the money Americans spend on Christmas gifts each year, we could solve this global issue.
Recent events?
I saw that it's been since the beginning of Jan since the last blog. Oops. I guess Facebook and Twitter get most of the attention these days. A few highlights...
We recently got word that Ava was NOT selected for public Montessori preschool. We are now deciding if we want to homeschool or send her to Easley Elementary. She needs something for the summer and next fall. She's getting bored and is thirsty for knowledge. When she's bored she gets into mischief...much like her Daddy
Addie has now fallen in love with Dora and Boots. Ava thinks they are sooo last year.
We are still involved with Celebrate Recovery. You can hear our testimony (given on a Sunday morning) at www.gracelife.com--sermons online, "Spiritual housecleaning". Our pastor did a 4 week series on CR's 8 recovery principles. Each of the leaders got to share their story. It's been great for our church family.
We are planning a trip to Boston for the summmer to see my friend Wendy...without the children. That is key.
I guess that's all for now. Thanks for catching up.
We recently got word that Ava was NOT selected for public Montessori preschool. We are now deciding if we want to homeschool or send her to Easley Elementary. She needs something for the summer and next fall. She's getting bored and is thirsty for knowledge. When she's bored she gets into mischief...much like her Daddy
Addie has now fallen in love with Dora and Boots. Ava thinks they are sooo last year.
We are still involved with Celebrate Recovery. You can hear our testimony (given on a Sunday morning) at www.gracelife.com--sermons online, "Spiritual housecleaning". Our pastor did a 4 week series on CR's 8 recovery principles. Each of the leaders got to share their story. It's been great for our church family.
We are planning a trip to Boston for the summmer to see my friend Wendy...without the children. That is key.
I guess that's all for now. Thanks for catching up.
Tuesday, January 06, 2009
Wise Sage Advice
...from our 3.5 yr old, Ava.
Yesterday Chris was replacing the back-up battery in one of the smoke detectors and Ava asked why it was beeping. We explained to her what the detector was for and why it beeps. Then, without having been told this, she said that if there were a fire we would have to jump out the front door so we won''t get hurt.
Then, this morning she told me that rainy days were best spent watching movies. Right she is.
Yesterday Chris was replacing the back-up battery in one of the smoke detectors and Ava asked why it was beeping. We explained to her what the detector was for and why it beeps. Then, without having been told this, she said that if there were a fire we would have to jump out the front door so we won''t get hurt.
Then, this morning she told me that rainy days were best spent watching movies. Right she is.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Christmas Plans
We celebrated a Durham family Christmas on the eve this year. We woke up on Christmas morning and headed to the Dilloway house to visit. We had some delicious food and presents. Then we headed to Winston-Salem and had another holiday meal. Mmmm lamb. Then, Leslie headed back to High Point to have a sleepover with her sisters. Mimi and Papa in Winston offered to keep the girls for the weekend, so we headed back to Durham without the girls and will be catching up on some QT.
Ava's Merry Christmas smile.
A little Christmas diva.
Ava's Merry Christmas smile.
A little Christmas diva.Tuesday, December 23, 2008
A better mom
Monday night is my time away and alone. We call it library night because that's where I go to be quiet and have fun...yes, I'm a dork like that. Well, last night I was headed out and saying goodbye to the girls and Ava asked me where I was going. Then, she asked why I need to be alone. I told her some time away helps me be a better mom. Her response was the sweetest I have ever heard. "You can't be a better mom...because you're special to me." That was the best Christmas present EVER, leaving our new Wii in the dust.
We hope all of you experience the special-ness of your family this holiday season. Merry Christmas.
We hope all of you experience the special-ness of your family this holiday season. Merry Christmas.
Monday, December 08, 2008
Addie's Stats
Addie had her well-baby visit today. Here are her numbers:
weight: 28-4# (74%)
height: 34" (50%)
Head: 47.7cm (55%)
At this point her favorite activities include the MagnaDoodle, coloring, Little Mommy stuff (mostly just the baby and stroller), chase, park play, jumping, rocking and singing Jesus Loves Me. Her vocabulary is well beyond 50 words and she is mostly speaking in 3-5 word sentences. Addie might end up being a math genius as she can already count to 9 in sequence. We are enjoying watching her grow and develop a close friendship with her big sister.
weight: 28-4# (74%)
height: 34" (50%)
Head: 47.7cm (55%)
At this point her favorite activities include the MagnaDoodle, coloring, Little Mommy stuff (mostly just the baby and stroller), chase, park play, jumping, rocking and singing Jesus Loves Me. Her vocabulary is well beyond 50 words and she is mostly speaking in 3-5 word sentences. Addie might end up being a math genius as she can already count to 9 in sequence. We are enjoying watching her grow and develop a close friendship with her big sister.
Saturday, December 06, 2008
Happy Birthday to Addie!
This time 2 years ago, our youngest was only an hour old. We are planning on getting our tree today too, following naps. Special roast dinner and a Maisy Mouse cake, yum.
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Pre-K Montessori
Chris and I have decided to try and get our oldest daughter, Ava, into the public pre-K Montessori program. There are 2 elementary schools that offer it and we visited the first one this morning. I was hoping for more walking and touring and less video and Q/A. The girls did remarkably well sitting still for an hour. I had to convince Ava that being at school would include friends and toys. She seemed disappointed that we just sat in a stark white room watching a movie she cared nothing about. We are sold on the Montessori curriculum, we just need to know which is the better of the 2 offered. The one we visited today is 10 years older than the other. Plus for them.
The only way to get her in is by the lottery system. Basically, we fill out and send in a application with our preferences listed. They throw all the names in a computer and we have to hope Ava's is picked. We'll see. If she's not selected, I'll probably do Pre-K montessori at home.
The only way to get her in is by the lottery system. Basically, we fill out and send in a application with our preferences listed. They throw all the names in a computer and we have to hope Ava's is picked. We'll see. If she's not selected, I'll probably do Pre-K montessori at home.
Friday, November 21, 2008
Smartie Pants
While I was putting laundry away in another room, the girls were enjoying Smarties candy at their learning table in the living room. Ava loves to count her candies, eat a few, and see how many are left. This time I noticed it wasn't Ava counting. Addie counted her candies 1-9 without missing or mixing numbers. She's so smart!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Public School
Chris and I have entered the public school scene. We went to the Choice Fair today and chatted with the 2 schools that offer a preK program. We liked what we heard so we picked up an application. The PreK classes are both at Montessori schools. We like that. It fits Ava well. The lottery is not until the spring so we won't know if she's in for a while. There are tours of the schools in mid-December we will also be attending. It's crazy to think we are already at this point in our child rearing.
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Proud to be an American
I'm amazed at the voter attendance for this election. It makes me proud to know that so many people cared enough about where we are as a country to get out and let their voices be heard. Praise God for our freedoms and rights!
Saturday, November 01, 2008
Trunk or Treats for Halloween
Friday, October 31, 2008
Highlight of Today
Ava decided to unload her dishes from the dishwasher without being asked. She found some spare time between playing Little People and coloring and decided to put her dishes away. She was even drying the ones that were still wet. My kid ROCKS!
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Road Trip!
Chris and I took Ava and Addie on their longest road trip yet. My cousin got married in Greenville, SC this past Saturday and we drove down. They did so well. I was hoping they would sleep in the car on the way there, but they didn't. The girls were happy and playful the entire way, so that's good. We had lunch at a restaurant in Greenville called The Pita House. It was awesome mid-eastern food (mmmm, pitas and hummus). They made the girls their own grilled cheese pitas for free without us asking. The ceremony was short, sweet, and to the point. The reception was a BIG party. Another cousin of mine owns a DJ company called The Party Machine. He is very entertaining and so the music, etc was rocking. We stayed over at my Aunt Peggy's house and got back into town around 4p on Sunday. The ride home was almost perfect except for the last 30 min or so Addie was getting antsy to be out of her seat. I've included a few pics.
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Debates
Are these Presidential Debates really necessary if they don't communicate any NEW information to the American people? I think I kept hearing everything the candidates have ever said during their 2year campaigns. Though I find that fact frustrating, I can't resist watching.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
The Launch
Well, Grace Church launched their Celebrate Recovery ministry last night. After about a year of praying and preparing it finally happened. There were about 25 in attendance. We were all extremely pleased at how the first night went. Everyone met for dinner at 6p; then large group at 7p; Open Share at 8p; and dessert at 9p. Chris and I were in charge of last night Open Share group. We did a brief overview of the ministry and then split into gender specific groups to talk about what brought us there. I can't wait for next Tuesday night!Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Duke Gardens
I have been meaning to take the girls to Duke Gardens for a long time. Spending time with our friend Amanda was a good opportunity to do so.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Visit from Mom
My mom came and visited yesterday morning-afternoon. We got some time at the park, ran to the grocery store, and shared lunch together. I could tell Ava and Addie really enjoyed her company. It was great.Sunday, September 14, 2008
From the Archive
Towel Hats
Fresh and clean from the bath, they wanted a "towel hat like Mama". Too cute not to get on camera.Thursday, August 28, 2008
God's Work in our Community
Chris and I have a pretty big month coming up. We have been intimately involved in the prep of starting a Celebrate Recovery ministry at our church. For those of you who don't know what this is:
The purpose of Celebrate Recovery is to fellowship and celebrate God’s healing power in our lives through the eight recovery principles found in the Beatitudes and Christ-centered 12 steps. This experience allows us to be changed. We open the door by sharing our experiences, victories, and hopes with one another. In addition, we become willing to accept God’s grace in solving our life problems.
By working the Christ-centered 12 steps and applying their biblical principles found in the Beatitudes, we begin to grow spiritually. We become free from our addictive, compulsive, and dysfunctional behaviors. This freedom creates peace, serenity, joy, and most importantly, a stronger personal relationship with God and others.
As we progress through the 8 principles and the 12 steps, we discover our personal, loving, and forgiving Higher Power, Jesus Christ.
The BIG church wide launch is going to be Sept 23. We will be meeting every Tues night indefinitely. We are expecting God to do big things through this ministry for all the hurting people in Chapel Hill, Durham areas. There's still lots to do and the energy is building. Please pray for us during this time.Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Our Summer Vacation
Chris and I took an 8 day no baby vacation to southern California Aug 8-16th. His parents were generous enough to keep the girls for us. We spent the first 4 days in San Diego visiting the desert, Balboa Park, Salk Institute, Getty Institute, the San Diego Zoo, and Torrey Pines. The last four days were spent at a Celebrate Recovery conference in Lake Forest, CA hosted by Saddleback Church (home of Purpose Driven pastor, Rick Warren). Here are a few of the hundreds of photos we took.
Chris on a look out point on our way out to the desert. We saw so many majestic settings. We were very impressed.
Me by a display of Orchids in Balboa Park.
The San Diego Zoo was one of our favorite places. You can get a sense of how small the exhibits are in this photo. I felt bad for the animals.
The Getty Institute was a great (free) place to view about 6 different art exhibits. They had a beautiful garden planted on the back side of the building. Chris got a lot of architectural shots that are worth seeing.
One evening after dinner we went out hunting for some ice cream. After we found it, we fell upon a shore full of seals next to a bridge that was great for viewing the sunset.
Chris on a look out point on our way out to the desert. We saw so many majestic settings. We were very impressed.
Me by a display of Orchids in Balboa Park.
The San Diego Zoo was one of our favorite places. You can get a sense of how small the exhibits are in this photo. I felt bad for the animals.
The Getty Institute was a great (free) place to view about 6 different art exhibits. They had a beautiful garden planted on the back side of the building. Chris got a lot of architectural shots that are worth seeing.
One evening after dinner we went out hunting for some ice cream. After we found it, we fell upon a shore full of seals next to a bridge that was great for viewing the sunset.Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Ava's new haircut
Ava's hair is growing in so beautifully. Unfortunately, it wasn't very even or thick. In order to have it look neater, Mimi (Chris's mom) took Ava to her first salon appointment. Here are some highlights.
Monday, August 04, 2008
Introducing Mr and Mrs Cameron Sherrin
My sister, Becky, got married on Saturday in Charlotte. It was a beautiful and short ceremony at their home church, Crossway Community, followed by a reception at a country club. There was good food and lots of dancing. They will be honeymooning in Gatlinburg, TN.
While we were there, Chris and I drove around uptown Charlotte and visited Marshall Park where we got engaged 7 years ago today.
While we were there, Chris and I drove around uptown Charlotte and visited Marshall Park where we got engaged 7 years ago today.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Knife-is
plural for knife (according to Ava's language rules)
Grace Mart on the News
Here's a link to the story ABC local news did on Grace Mart. Luckily, we were gone long before they showed up.
Monday, July 28, 2008
Grace Mart
So, Grace Mart started at our church this week. What is GM you ask? We clear out our meeting hall and set it up to look like a walmart-type store. All of the inventory has been donated by community members and church attenders and is given away for FREE. This is the biggest year yet. The master-mind behind it all has 7 storage units and 2 garages full of donated furniture, clothes, food, appliances, kid stuff, books, and general household items. A group of volunteers started sorting and setting up today. The "store" will open to church members on Wed night and to the community on Thurs. I have heard rumors of fist fights breaking out and such. They have had to organize a team for security. Whoa.
I have been the "go to" person for the store set up. Formulating plans and making sure everyone has a job. It was difficult for me to wrap my mind around the chaos when I first walked in this morning. There was SO MUCH stuff. By the end of the morning things were approaching manageable. Ava and Addie just played with the other kids and all the toys available. We will be there again tomorrow and on Wed. Tonight, I'm beat.
I have been the "go to" person for the store set up. Formulating plans and making sure everyone has a job. It was difficult for me to wrap my mind around the chaos when I first walked in this morning. There was SO MUCH stuff. By the end of the morning things were approaching manageable. Ava and Addie just played with the other kids and all the toys available. We will be there again tomorrow and on Wed. Tonight, I'm beat.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Short Trip to CRAZY
Thought I would share a glimpse of how crazy life can be. Chris had his CR study tonight at church (forgive me if you're not aware of this study) so I had the girls to myself. After a lovely loud dinner we headed outside for some bubbles, wagon pulling, swinging, and plant watering. On our way to water the plants Addie stops by the railroad ties and decides to "balance beam". This is not unusual. The plan in my head says, water plants then head inside for stories and bed. Addie had something else in mind. She was determined to master her balance beaming skills regardless of my instructions to come inside. She starts crying. Ava has disappeared to the backyard somewhere. I leave Addie in the driveway to finish her rant while I go look for Ava (who was putting the wagon back where it belongs...awesome). Meanwhile, Addie is still screaming my name and I can hear her foot steps getting faster as she's chasing me. Another detail to share is that we have a gravel drive and Addie was wearing her Crocs. Not a good combo. As I turned around to tend to her she tripped over a tree root, tripped, and landed mouth first into the gravel. Blood everywhere...except on my new white shirt miraculously. I throw down the watering cans, video camera, and mail and cradle her to the van where I have Kleenex. Meanwhile Ava is coming back up the drive in response to the drama. I take Addie in and she is totally inconsolable...tired and hurt. Ava starts asking for a snack. I tell her I'm busy helping Addie. She then asks if she can watch a movie. I'm busy. She throws a tantrum. So, round and round we went with requests and tantrums. Poor Addie has a HUGE lip b/c she wouldn't let me touch her with ice. I tried songs, spinning, holding her down. I hope she is able to suck her thumb so that she can sleep. It took me at least 45 min to get Addie fixed, diapers, jammies, and stories. They are now in bed and I wish I were doing the same.
Exciting Weekend Ahead
I will be getting a small break this weekend. My sister, Becky is getting married on Aug 2 and there is a lingerie party/sleepover for her tomorrow night in Charlotte. I'll be leaving the girls with Chris and heading out on the (short 2.5 hour) open road. Most of my other sisters will be there so it won't be difficult to enjoy my time away.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Happy Birthday to Me!
I turn 29 today! We headed to Winston for some family celebrations. Ava's birthday was on July 9th so we have some extended family gifts to pick up for her too. Grandma made spaghetti and garlic bread for lunch with an ice cream cake for dessert. She told me she talked the Carvel lady into delivering the cake to her house since Grandma doesn't drive. Pretty slick. We had a great visit with them and are bummed we aren't able to do it more often.
Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes. It's nice to be remembered.
Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes. It's nice to be remembered.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
NC Zoo
We would certainly recommend going on a weekday. We took the girls along with the Wehe family (Ava's long time friend, Jadie Ruth born 2 weeks prior) to the NC Zoo yesterday and had a blast. It wasn't too hot or too crowded. The shade had a nice refreshing breeze for when the walk did get too hot. The TRAM certainly helped as well. Ava said her favorites were the gorillas. Addie seemed to like the sea lions the best. I liked the elephant. I'll post a couple pics here. There's a lot more posted on Facebook (if you have an acct).
Ava's 3y Checkup Results
Weight: 35.5lbs (85%)
Height: 37" (50%)
BMI: 18.2 (94%)
BP: 84/38
Ava had a great visit today with Dr Wang. The nurse did a hearing and vision test on her as well. The hearing test consisted of Ava putting on a pair of headphones and telling the nurse in which ear she heard the beep. For the vision, Ava wore a funny pair of glasses and looked at a "magic eye" type picture and told the nurse what she saw. She did great for both tests. This was the first visit that they checked her body mass index and blood pressure. Ava has grown 2 inches and gained 6 lbs in the last year. Dr Wang was giving me some suggestions on how to slow/moderate her weight gain. Skim milk was a strong suggestion. He said it wasn't a big deal at this point, but that type of weight gain should not become a pattern. She got one shot in her arm and didn't even cry. Ava was brave, cooperative, and polite. She made this mama really proud.
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
Happy Birthday, Ava!
Ava turned 3 today. When she woke up I gave her a special birthday ballerina outfit to wear. The tiara didn't stay on very well so she opted out. My sister also came up from Charlotte to help us celebrate. It was a great day filled with balloons, cake, presents, and lots of giggles. Here are a few highlights.
Sunday, July 06, 2008
Happy Birthday, Dad Bitsas!
Hope you have a joyful celebration in Italy.
Our Holiday Weekend
Not too much went on around here for the ol' 4th of July. We attended a triple surprise party cookout for some friends of ours. Chris made 2 loaves of rosemary bread for picnic sandwiches. They were a big hit. Several of us got together after eating to play a game of Bocci ball. We found it was quite difficult with 2 tired children. I was holding Addie with one arm and throwing with the other. After about 5 rounds we called it quits.
Our evening was extremely uneventful. Chris came up from the shop around 8:30p as it was beginning to thunder and I was sitting on my bed reading. "We have to do something for the 4th before the rain starts". We grabbed our little sparklers and stood on the front porch just the 2 of us (the girls were in bed). We made some light art. That was our day.
Then we threw a big house party on the 5th for a cookout. It started raining just as the burgers were coming off the grill. It was a great time of food and Catch Phrase. Not to mention, the kids were in great moods.
Our evening was extremely uneventful. Chris came up from the shop around 8:30p as it was beginning to thunder and I was sitting on my bed reading. "We have to do something for the 4th before the rain starts". We grabbed our little sparklers and stood on the front porch just the 2 of us (the girls were in bed). We made some light art. That was our day.
Then we threw a big house party on the 5th for a cookout. It started raining just as the burgers were coming off the grill. It was a great time of food and Catch Phrase. Not to mention, the kids were in great moods.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Columbus Club
My parents have a membership to this little picnic/fishing hole place in Orange County. We met them out there yesterday and spent the day visiting, fishing, and eating. Ava and Addie got to play with their cousins and had an all around great time. Chris did a great job fishing (caught 5). I, on the other hand, tried to fish. Four of five casts would get tangled in the reel and I would have to have Chris or Sean fix it. My brother-in-law and husband were so patient. Finally I decided fishing wasn't one of my gifts. Here are a few pictures my mom took.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Ava's Birthday List
See "Target Lists" for ideas.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
6 Years and 2 Kids later
Chris and I will celebrate 6 years of marriage on Sunday. 6 years and 2 kids happened very quickly. We sent the girls to Winston-Salem and are taking a little getaway for the weekend...starting tomorrow...following 3 days of Chris in Texas. It can't come soon enough.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Addie Stats
Addie had her 18 month visit with her doctor yesterday. I thought I would give you her most recent numbers:
25#-12oz: weight (74%)
32"- height (60%)
47.7cm-head size (60%)
It seems as though her head is the perfect size for her height. Her chubbiness makes her even more scrumptious.
Things she's doing:
-everything Ava does
-crayons (now drawing circles and lines!)
-prefers exploration over sitting still for book or Dora
-feed self with fork/spoon
-play in water (bath, pool, shower, puddles made by faulty sippy cups, etc)
-brush hair/teeth
-put on shoes
-talk (she has about 10 words with lots of grunts and gestures/signs that communicate surprisingly well)
-follow simple instructions (this is my FAVORITE and the one I find most helpful)
-She prefers her Mama over any and all people and toys...it's obvious she loves me!
Friday, June 06, 2008
Recent pics of the girls
Friday, May 30, 2008
Let me count the ways...
The girls are off to the grandparents again this weekend (Winston-Salem). I've been brainstorming about how to best use this time.
finish mural in Addie's room
paint bathroom and closet doors
clean out the van
deep clean the whole house
see movies
quick trip to the coast
reading a book start to finish
hanging out with friends minus kids for the first time
lunch dates
gardening (against my docs wishes) because now I know what poison ivy/oak looks like
painting with acrylics
Of course, I can't do all these things but I will definitely be keeping busy.
finish mural in Addie's room
paint bathroom and closet doors
clean out the van
deep clean the whole house
see movies
quick trip to the coast
reading a book start to finish
hanging out with friends minus kids for the first time
lunch dates
gardening (against my docs wishes) because now I know what poison ivy/oak looks like
painting with acrylics
Of course, I can't do all these things but I will definitely be keeping busy.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Introducing Mr and Mrs. John Bitsas
YEAH! Yesterday the big day finally arrived. John and Corrie got married in Meredith Chapel at 2pm. We had the reception at Cafe Luna across from Marbles Children's Museum in Raleigh. They are headed to Colorado for their 2 week honeymoon. It was a beautiful traditional ceremony. We couldn't have had better weather if we had planned it ourselves. We decided to take the girls with us. Ava and Addie did pretty well during the ceremony. Ava was most entertained by the pianist and soloist. In a very loud voice she kept asking if there were going to be more songs. The reception was a little more challenging. By that time the girls were beyond exhaustion. I took them home a little early and put them to bed. I hated to miss the sending off but life with children is full of such sacrifices. I know there are lots more moms out there who can attest to that. My sister is getting married on Aug 2 and the girls will NOT be attending. I'll try and get some photos up as soon as they come available. Now, time to rest.
PS. The poison ivy is nearly gone and doing much better.
Friday, May 16, 2008
More still...
Maybe I have super sensitive skin, maybe the ivy plant is a superhero of its kind...whatever the reason I still have new spots popping out even after I finished my Prednisone, so I went back to the doctor today. Apparently you can be so allergic that you can have "rebound" reaction to it. I am no longer allowed to garden, doc's orders. They gave me a shorter dose of Prednisone, super Allegra, and another antihistamine to help me sleep through the itching. I kept waking myself last night as I was scratching in my sleep. I was also told that I shouldn't be using so much Prep H at one time. So, forget my advice in my earlier blog...unless you just have a tiny spot to treat. When it's your entire upper body that is suffering it is advised that you not cover it in Prep H. Oh well.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Poison Ivy
I thought I would share what I have learned about this "human repellant" plant. It can in fact grow really tall like a tree (4ft) or like a vine attached to a larger tree. For treatment I was eventually put on the steroid Prednisone. It helped speed up the poisoning process rash, blister, heal. The number one, hands down, all time favorite guarantee itch relief solution...Preparation H. I had read the Witch Hazel helps heal the rash and itching. PH is 50% witch hazel. It saved me.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
To all the mothers who read this blog...
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO YOU (singing) !
Sunday, May 04, 2008
New Plants
I have recently become motivated to dig up the yucca bushes that are in our yard out by the street. Those plants have been there for decades and required a lot of man strength to dig them out. Some of the roots were as big as watermelons. Good exercise. Unfortunately, I got mixed up in some poison ivy and have the effects of it on my forearms. I was given the secret to itch relief...heat. It releases the bodies natural antihistamines and can relieve the itch for up to 10 hours. So far so good.
I went out and bought a rhododendron and a hydrangea bush to replace them. I'm excited to start seeing some color in our yard...though it is a beautiful rich green.
I went out and bought a rhododendron and a hydrangea bush to replace them. I'm excited to start seeing some color in our yard...though it is a beautiful rich green.
Friday, May 02, 2008
Strawberry Pickin
I took Ava and Addie to a local farm so that we could pick our own strawberries. We had such a great time. Ava quickly learned which one were ripe and which needed some more time. "Red and round" she repeated over and over. Addie was our official taste tester...stem and all. Here are few shots.
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Sister Love
Too cute not to share. Ava is trying to catch Addie on the slide.Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Ava's so funny...
Today, Ava and I were watching and talking about the squirrels that roam through our front yard. She asked a lot of "why". She asked what this one particular squirrel was looking for. I asked her what she thought, "I think he's hungry for some banana bread".
Tuesday, April 08, 2008
There's no place like home, there's no place like home...
Every 2 weeks Chris takes a trip to Austin, TX for a meeting concerning a project that is being built. He headed out today as usual. I got a call from him a little while ago (about 9:30p) telling me that FAA has ordered a mandatory landing all 300 of [some type of plane I can't remember the name of] for an inspection. They canceled approximately 1000 flights looking for faulty wiring. He was calling me from Dallas and waiting for a bus to take him on a 3 hour drive to Austin. ETA...midnight. Will he make it home tomorrow as scheduled? We'll see.
Monday, March 31, 2008
Great solution to a terrible problem
I got reading glasses today. I've noticed in the last couple of weeks that each time I've read for 45 minutes or more I've had a least a threatening of a headache. Other times it's been worse and only 3 Ibuprofen and sleep bring relief. Since not reading wasn't an option for me, I finally scheduled and eye exam and voila. This is me with reading glasses.Thursday, March 27, 2008
Park, Friends, and Fun
We are spending the majority of the week bouncing between play dates and parks. There has inevitably been some great napping.
Mon: recovered from Easter weekend out-of-town
Tues: my sister Katie and her 4 kids came to play. We took them to Forest Hills Park.
Wed: library and afternoon at the park (we wanted to take Windsor, but she was busy).
Thurs: went to the park with Jacob and Johanna
Fri: play date with the Kennedy twins, Allie and Sophie...probably go to the park.
Sat: TBA
Sun: visiting the new Hailey G. Gwaltney!
Mon: recovered from Easter weekend out-of-town
Tues: my sister Katie and her 4 kids came to play. We took them to Forest Hills Park.
Wed: library and afternoon at the park (we wanted to take Windsor, but she was busy).
Thurs: went to the park with Jacob and Johanna
Fri: play date with the Kennedy twins, Allie and Sophie...probably go to the park.
Sat: TBA
Sun: visiting the new Hailey G. Gwaltney!
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Keeps going and going and going....
like the energizer bunny, sickness is continuing in the young Bitsas household. Addie and Chris both have some stomach issues surfacing. I feel like we are under attack for the new things we are pursuing. PLEASE PRAY!
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
7 Random Facts
Here are a few random things about me that few of you probably know:
1. I was a tomboy when I was younger and I actually thought eating Frosted Flakes could make me run faster and jump higher just like the commercials.
2. I often wonder what people's feet look like. Weird, I know.
3. I've been to the beach less than 10x my whole life (28 yrs).
4. I've always wanted to drive a BIG truck (which now we own, but Chris is driving it and I get the minivan).
5. I have sneezing fits in the morning (worse in the spring and summer) that consist of over 20 sneezes one after the other.
6. I cannot eat green peas unless they are in a casserole or soup. It's a texture thing.
7. I love stories, mostly through books, but also movies. My aunt used to call me her little book worm.
1. I was a tomboy when I was younger and I actually thought eating Frosted Flakes could make me run faster and jump higher just like the commercials.
2. I often wonder what people's feet look like. Weird, I know.
3. I've been to the beach less than 10x my whole life (28 yrs).
4. I've always wanted to drive a BIG truck (which now we own, but Chris is driving it and I get the minivan).
5. I have sneezing fits in the morning (worse in the spring and summer) that consist of over 20 sneezes one after the other.
6. I cannot eat green peas unless they are in a casserole or soup. It's a texture thing.
7. I love stories, mostly through books, but also movies. My aunt used to call me her little book worm.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Gospel Project Update
We hit 13-14K homes in Chapel Hill with the gospel as it's written in Andy Stanley's book "How Good is Good Enough". YEAH!!
Pink Eye
Friday, March 14, 2008
Weekend Plans
We have some friends coming into town tonight from the D.C. area, Ben and Angella. We haven't seen them in about a year. They will only be able to stay through tomorrow afternoon, but it will be good to see them and visit.
Tomorrow at 4p we have our POPS (Parents of Preschoolers...co-ed MOPS) small group and Chris and I are in charge of the lesson. We have several ideas. I guess it's about time to pick one and develop it.
Everything else should be business as usual.
Tomorrow at 4p we have our POPS (Parents of Preschoolers...co-ed MOPS) small group and Chris and I are in charge of the lesson. We have several ideas. I guess it's about time to pick one and develop it.
Everything else should be business as usual.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Always good to hear again
I'm attending a Wed morning bible study through my church and we are studying Beth Moore's Psalms of Ascent. They are so rich with encouraging promises and really speak to those on the hard journey of faith. Well, today's study was so good I thought I would share a morsel. These are two of the thoughts Beth shared.
Sometimes Christians in bondage are not sinning and having a good time. The shame and defeat of repentance, promise of not doing it again, and then failing to do so is tiring. After a while we believe that we will live there and die there. That is not God's truth. That is not God's promise to us. His plan for our life is not to have us suffer under the power of habitual addictive sin. The only way out, the transforming power of his word. Washing our minds with his words of hope and help. God does not give up on us because he knows what good and prosperous things are in our future.
In studying the Feast of Weeks (also Pentecost/Harvest), Beth Moore shared that sometimes the people of Israel would so desire the good that was to come that they would eat the wheat seeds before they were planted. Then, they wouldn't have the harvest they desired come early Summer. The second, and last thought, is that it feels so good to attend bible studies, small groups, to hear sermons, and sing songs that fill your belly with good things. You can feel good, satisfied, and full on the "seed" of the Lord. It's not enough to bring fruit. There is only fruit and harvest if you plant the seed in faith. Sometimes even watering it with our tears (Beth says). We must take the things we have feasted on (bible studies, etc) and put them into obedient, faith-filled action. Loving our enemies. Forgiving the unforgivable. Generous giving...and much more. God rewards these things but we will not see the harvest the next day, but "in a different season and on an increase" (as my home pastor shares with us). So, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."(Galatians 6:9)
Sometimes Christians in bondage are not sinning and having a good time. The shame and defeat of repentance, promise of not doing it again, and then failing to do so is tiring. After a while we believe that we will live there and die there. That is not God's truth. That is not God's promise to us. His plan for our life is not to have us suffer under the power of habitual addictive sin. The only way out, the transforming power of his word. Washing our minds with his words of hope and help. God does not give up on us because he knows what good and prosperous things are in our future.
In studying the Feast of Weeks (also Pentecost/Harvest), Beth Moore shared that sometimes the people of Israel would so desire the good that was to come that they would eat the wheat seeds before they were planted. Then, they wouldn't have the harvest they desired come early Summer. The second, and last thought, is that it feels so good to attend bible studies, small groups, to hear sermons, and sing songs that fill your belly with good things. You can feel good, satisfied, and full on the "seed" of the Lord. It's not enough to bring fruit. There is only fruit and harvest if you plant the seed in faith. Sometimes even watering it with our tears (Beth says). We must take the things we have feasted on (bible studies, etc) and put them into obedient, faith-filled action. Loving our enemies. Forgiving the unforgivable. Generous giving...and much more. God rewards these things but we will not see the harvest the next day, but "in a different season and on an increase" (as my home pastor shares with us). So, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."(Galatians 6:9)
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Gospel Project
If my God is big, then I need to pray and ask big. The most recent request is related to an adventure done by Grace Church of Chapel Hill (our family). We had the book Since Nobody's Perfect How Good is Good Enough by Andy Stanley specially published with our info on the back cover. We ordered an ENORMOUS amount at a discounted rate and are covering the town of Chapel Hill with it. This week we are sending out teams of people to take a copy of this book to every home in Chapel Hill (over 80,000). The girls and I did our run this afternoon with the double stroller and about 15 other people. It was a ton of fun spreading God's salvation message to nearly 400 homes. I just know that God sent the good weather just for us.
Doodlebugs
One of our favorite children's CDs is Laurie Berkner's Whaddaya Think of That. She has a pleasant voice and plays only the guitar. There's no synthesized drums or annoying high pitch piano. Very acoustic. Anyway, there's a song on there called "Doodlebugs" and I got to listening to the lyrics one day and they sounded very familiar. Its the story of several different doodlebugs. First, there's Jake who goes to NY to visit his friend George. Then, Doodlebug Jerry goes to Fl to visit his parents, who are also doodlebugs. Lastly, Doodlebug Elaine flies across the hall to visit a doodlebug named Kramer. I don't know who Jake is, but George, Jerry, Elaine, and Kramer are very familiar to me. Laurie must be a Seinfeld fan, too.
Monday, March 10, 2008
No More Croup 'Round Here
We are doing much better around here. Addie is about 90% better with just some residual cough, though she has a pretty runny nose now. Ava is still coughing quite a bit, but it's not the barking cough that croup is known for. We haven't had any other gasping incidents. We did have one more cough/vomit episode. We were able to do some light traveling this weekend for a family birthday party. It did us all some good to change the scenery a little bit. Hopefully this week we'll be getting back to normal.
Thanks to everyone for your concerns, thoughts, and prayers. We appreciate you greatly!
Thanks to everyone for your concerns, thoughts, and prayers. We appreciate you greatly!
Thursday, March 06, 2008
Scary stuff
Well, Ava definitely has croup. Last night around 10:30p, Ava started coughing and gasping for air. I scooped her out of bed and we sat on the porch with her. She continued coughing (which led to vomiting) for about 10 min. Even after she stopped coughing we could tell that her airway was still swollen. I read that cold air helps to relieve the coughing spell, swelling, and esophageal spasms. I had been looking forward to sleeping in my own bed (after sleeping on the floor in Addie's room), but couldn't chance another episode like that without being able to respond ASAP. I'm glad we have a comfy futon.
It's been a rough week. We have had to cancel everything. Ava keeps asking me to go places, but she doesn't understand that I don't want to spread their sickness. I took them to the park today. We went to one that I knew was probably going to be deserted. They played hard and had a great time. When we got home (around 5p) Addie crashed in her bed until dinner. Then cried to go back after we ate.
Anyway, we have a game plan (medicine, humidifiers, water-water-water, isolation). It's in the works, so now all we need is time (and lots of patience).
It's been a rough week. We have had to cancel everything. Ava keeps asking me to go places, but she doesn't understand that I don't want to spread their sickness. I took them to the park today. We went to one that I knew was probably going to be deserted. They played hard and had a great time. When we got home (around 5p) Addie crashed in her bed until dinner. Then cried to go back after we ate.
Anyway, we have a game plan (medicine, humidifiers, water-water-water, isolation). It's in the works, so now all we need is time (and lots of patience).
Wednesday, March 05, 2008
Croup (x2?)
I suppose it's a great thing that we have gone 2.5 years without a case of croup. Addie didn't have any symptoms on Sunday. When she got up on Mon morning she was "barking like a seal". It was a pretty scary sound since I had never heard it before. We took her to the doctor and she confirmed out suspicion. Our first case of croup. Addie's been doing pretty well. It seems to be a mild case and hasn't affected her daily routine too much. She has heavy congestion as well, so she has a hard time sucking her thumb when sleeping. I have been sleeping on the floor in Addie's room because I learned that in the worst cases of croup, your child could stop breathing (due to the swelling of the windpipe/larynx). It's highly contagious so...you guessed it. Today, Ava has started coughing. Her voice is raspy (like an old smoker) and she's quite moody. The virus could last anywhere from 3-10 days. I think we'll just have to hibernate and wait it out.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Sorry for the Delay
I should have told you sooner...Addie is walking! She took her first few steps over a week ago and is now really starting to perfect her little strut. She still prefers to crawl most of the time, but the crawl/walk ratio is gradually lessening. The look of pride on her face while she's upright is priceless.
In other news, I have decided to dedicate my time, energy, and efforts to the home life. I can no longer call myself a graduate student and will be withdrawing from Gordon-Conwell within the week. It's been a difficult process for both Chris and I, and now it's over. I feel really really good about my decision and am so thankful to have a supportive husband. I know I have the Lord's blessings with me in my new commitment.
In other news, I have decided to dedicate my time, energy, and efforts to the home life. I can no longer call myself a graduate student and will be withdrawing from Gordon-Conwell within the week. It's been a difficult process for both Chris and I, and now it's over. I feel really really good about my decision and am so thankful to have a supportive husband. I know I have the Lord's blessings with me in my new commitment.
Monday, January 14, 2008
Yummy
Our family has taken a liking to two new-to-me recipes. One for homemade yogurt and another for homemade vanilla pudding with bananas and Nilla wafers (or "melon wafers" as Ava calls them). They are sooo simple and sooo delicious.
Yogurt:
36oz of whole milk heat to almost boil.
Pour into non-metal pan and let cool to 100 degrees F. Should form a nice skin on top.
2T of reg yogurt, 2T of milk (at room temp) gently pour down side of bowl into milk, careful not to disturb the skin.
Wrap in a towel and leave in oven with light on overnight. Chill for 4-6 hours before flavoring and consuming.
Some of our favorites are vanilla, maple, and honey. I'm currently trying banana and raspberry.
If the yogurt seems too runny, you can strain it thru cheese cloth for a couple hours. Be sure to save the drained whey and use it in soups, breads, or smoothies.
Pudding:
1/3 C of white sugar, 3T of cornstarch, 1/4t of salt in a med sauce pan. Slowly add 2 C of milk until the cornstarch has dissolved. Turn on med heat and stir until it thickens (careful not to let it boil). Remove from heat and add 1T of butter and 1tsp of vanilla extract. Voila!
I like to layer the pudding with cookies and bananas in a serving dish. Chill for a couple hours and enjoy. It's really really good the next day after the cookies have gotten soft.
Yogurt:
36oz of whole milk heat to almost boil.
Pour into non-metal pan and let cool to 100 degrees F. Should form a nice skin on top.
2T of reg yogurt, 2T of milk (at room temp) gently pour down side of bowl into milk, careful not to disturb the skin.
Wrap in a towel and leave in oven with light on overnight. Chill for 4-6 hours before flavoring and consuming.
Some of our favorites are vanilla, maple, and honey. I'm currently trying banana and raspberry.
If the yogurt seems too runny, you can strain it thru cheese cloth for a couple hours. Be sure to save the drained whey and use it in soups, breads, or smoothies.
Pudding:
1/3 C of white sugar, 3T of cornstarch, 1/4t of salt in a med sauce pan. Slowly add 2 C of milk until the cornstarch has dissolved. Turn on med heat and stir until it thickens (careful not to let it boil). Remove from heat and add 1T of butter and 1tsp of vanilla extract. Voila!
I like to layer the pudding with cookies and bananas in a serving dish. Chill for a couple hours and enjoy. It's really really good the next day after the cookies have gotten soft.
Wednesday, January 09, 2008
Botox Baby
Poor Addie. The dangers of learning to walk. Yesterday, she was trying to walk behind a plastic grocery cart of Ava's. It wasn't sturdy enough to hold her weight helping her balance, so she ended up falling and hitting her lip on the handle. She cut the inside on her teeth and was bleeding quite a bit. I tried to ice it, but that was pointless. Throughout the rest of the day, she bumped it 3 more times. One of which broke it open again. Today it's black and blue but doesn't seem to be bothering her...except for the incessant drooling.Sunday, January 06, 2008
Happy 13 Months
Our tiny package of joy is not so tiny anymore. We are so proud that she is really starting to get the hang of using her signs to communicate her needs. We even have little conversations about what to do with certain toys. Addie loves playing with puzzles, her MagnaDoodle, Little People, and most of all Ava.Friday, January 04, 2008
Girls weekend
Chris has headed off to Charlotte for a class he is taking to help him pass his next 2 ARE exams. That makes it a girls weekend. It's been so cold out that we decided to stay inside today. We played with some toys they got for Christmas. Ava and I had a race to see who could finish their lunch first. She actually ate everything that was on her plate. Yeah! I put her new easel together and we spent a good bit of time drawing on the chalkboard. I'm not brave enough to get the paints out yet. If you have any fun suggestions for us on things to do, send them my way. I'm not sure what's on the agenda for the afternoon, but I'm sure it will be interesting.
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Thanks, Starbucks!
This morning I went through the drive thru at a nearby Starbucks and ordered my usual tall, decaf, peppermint mocha, non-fat, no whip. When I puled around to pay at the window the lady said "To spread Christmas cheer, I bought your drink today". She explained that I had the option to pass it to the car behind me, but since there wasn't one, I got a free peppermint mocha. Thanks, Starbucks of Guess Rd!
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Worst Pediatric Visit Ever...
was Addie's 12 month well-baby visit this morning. I knew that when I scheduled it with this particular doctor at 11am that it wasn't going to be easy. We showed up right on time for our appointment so that we wouldn't have to wait too long in the lobby. We ended up waiting almost 45 minutes for the nurse to come and get us. There were just enough toys to keep them occupied off and on. I had also brought some snack crackers for them to nibble on. I could tell the girls were ticking time bombs ready to explode into tears and tantrums any minute.
The nurse finally got us back to do her part before the dr came in. As I started to get Addie ready for her weigh-in, the nurse handed me two forms to fill out regarding exposure to TB and lead. After filing out the sheets, we headed to the weigh station. Addie is a BIG 23lbs. Yeah!
The nurse lead us into the lab and told me she was going to prick Addie's finger. I hadn't remembered that a baby's iron is checked at the 12 mon visit. With Addie on my lap, she pricked her right middle finger and tried to get it into the tube. Blood was all over her and all over Addie. I couldn't help but think she had never done this before. Addie was screaming and crying and arching her back, kicking, etc the entire time. It was certainly a good 5 min before she was done. Meanwhile, Ava is opening and slamming the door to the lab, climbing on a bar stool, and trying to get into the drawers.
We finished up there and headed back to the exam room so that Addie could be measured. I laid Addie down and the nurse couldn't even measure her right. It took 2 tries to get the height. Addie is 29 1/8 inches tall. I had never seen a nurse with less know-how. Goodness. Finally she was done and we sat and waited for the doctor. I distracted the girls with more snack as we waited an additional 10-15 min for her to come in. Ava kept trying to run out into the hall or play in the sink (making huge water messes).
The first thing the doctor asked me when she came in was "do big heads run in your family? Do people have trouble finding hats that fit?" I just stared at her blank faced. She was in the room about 10-15 min doing the exam and we talked about Addie's skills and habits. Meanwhile, Ava is still trying to waste water by playing in the sink soaking her shirt in the process. Before the doctor left we talked about what shots Addie was going to get. Addie's doing great and she only needed one in addition to the flu shot.
I only gave the nurse about 5 min to draw up the shots before I started getting Addie dressed and Ava dried off. I grabbed our bags and started heading out the door. The nurse was talking with someone behind the nurses station and the doctor was on the phone. I told them that I was tired of waiting, the girls were at their wits end, and that I would reschedule a shot visit. I insisted twice and then with a huff and irritated tone told them to go ahead. They took me into a side exam room. The nurse gave me a weak apology and told me she had been busy with a broken arm. I put Addie on the table and held her while she got her two shots. Then, I realized that there was no where to set Addie while I comforted Ava after her flu shot. Luckily, Ava was very brave and did wonderfully. As I left that exam room I said to the girls,"lets go home and have some lunch". With a pitiful sarcastic tone the nurse said, "well I hope you get to enjoy your lunch." I couldn't help but think that she wanted me to know that she would be missing her lunch. I didn't care one bit.
It's an understatement to say that I was happy and relieved to get out of there. Once we got into the van I looked at the clock. 12:48. We had been at the doctor's office for almost 2 hours! Never again will I let that happen. Next time I'll leave much sooner.
The nurse finally got us back to do her part before the dr came in. As I started to get Addie ready for her weigh-in, the nurse handed me two forms to fill out regarding exposure to TB and lead. After filing out the sheets, we headed to the weigh station. Addie is a BIG 23lbs. Yeah!
The nurse lead us into the lab and told me she was going to prick Addie's finger. I hadn't remembered that a baby's iron is checked at the 12 mon visit. With Addie on my lap, she pricked her right middle finger and tried to get it into the tube. Blood was all over her and all over Addie. I couldn't help but think she had never done this before. Addie was screaming and crying and arching her back, kicking, etc the entire time. It was certainly a good 5 min before she was done. Meanwhile, Ava is opening and slamming the door to the lab, climbing on a bar stool, and trying to get into the drawers.
We finished up there and headed back to the exam room so that Addie could be measured. I laid Addie down and the nurse couldn't even measure her right. It took 2 tries to get the height. Addie is 29 1/8 inches tall. I had never seen a nurse with less know-how. Goodness. Finally she was done and we sat and waited for the doctor. I distracted the girls with more snack as we waited an additional 10-15 min for her to come in. Ava kept trying to run out into the hall or play in the sink (making huge water messes).
The first thing the doctor asked me when she came in was "do big heads run in your family? Do people have trouble finding hats that fit?" I just stared at her blank faced. She was in the room about 10-15 min doing the exam and we talked about Addie's skills and habits. Meanwhile, Ava is still trying to waste water by playing in the sink soaking her shirt in the process. Before the doctor left we talked about what shots Addie was going to get. Addie's doing great and she only needed one in addition to the flu shot.
I only gave the nurse about 5 min to draw up the shots before I started getting Addie dressed and Ava dried off. I grabbed our bags and started heading out the door. The nurse was talking with someone behind the nurses station and the doctor was on the phone. I told them that I was tired of waiting, the girls were at their wits end, and that I would reschedule a shot visit. I insisted twice and then with a huff and irritated tone told them to go ahead. They took me into a side exam room. The nurse gave me a weak apology and told me she had been busy with a broken arm. I put Addie on the table and held her while she got her two shots. Then, I realized that there was no where to set Addie while I comforted Ava after her flu shot. Luckily, Ava was very brave and did wonderfully. As I left that exam room I said to the girls,"lets go home and have some lunch". With a pitiful sarcastic tone the nurse said, "well I hope you get to enjoy your lunch." I couldn't help but think that she wanted me to know that she would be missing her lunch. I didn't care one bit.
It's an understatement to say that I was happy and relieved to get out of there. Once we got into the van I looked at the clock. 12:48. We had been at the doctor's office for almost 2 hours! Never again will I let that happen. Next time I'll leave much sooner.
Thursday, December 06, 2007
Addie Turns One
Today was Addie's official first birthday. We partied last Sat, Dec 1, and had a nice low-key celebration today. Ava was the first to wish her Happy Birthday. From that point on (breakfast) we sang to her all day long. We had a play date this morning and after their afternoon naps I took the girls to the mall for a ride on the merry-go-round. Addie, of course, didn't realize it was all for her birthday, but she loved it nonetheless. This evening we had a take-out BBQ dinner with cake and Christmas tree shopping.
Monday, December 03, 2007
"Because I'm the Mom" from YouTube
Monday, November 19, 2007
A Mom's Greatest Gift
Last night when Chris and I were putting Ava to bed we did our normal bath/story routine. During the exchange of good night hugs and kisses, Ava told me she loved me unsolicited. She has told me before when I asked her to say it, but last night she threw her little arms around my neck and said, "I love you". It was our best moment.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
New Pictures
I posted new pictures today.
Friday, November 16, 2007
Poor Addie
She's getting some more teeth and having a really tough time. Incedently, the rest of us are too.
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
First time for everything
The season of sickness has begun at the Durham Bitsas house. Addie had a little cough a couple weeks ago and recovered quickly. Ava picked up a cold and came home from Winston with it on Monday. Then yesterday Addie's nose started running. I figured everything would be tolerable for Ava by today. Nope. She got up this morning with "my ear hurts" while tugging at her L ear. So, we have our first ear infection, our first antibiotic, and our first sickness of the season. Rumor has it there's another stomach bug going around. I pray it misses us. Last year's was horrible and I don't want to relive that.
Thursday, November 08, 2007
For Ava and Addie's Christmas (Addie's B-Day too)
Tuesday, November 06, 2007
11 months today
Happy almost birthday to Addie. She's 11 months today. She is weighing about 22lbs and I'm guessing about 30-31 inches long. Not sure about that one though. I have also realized that she is on her last case of formula. YIPPIE! In these last couple days she has started to communicate a lot more. Maybe I'm just paying more attention. She has picked up on a couple of signs that she uses occasionally. Waving hello or goodbye, eat, and peekaboo when she wants to play. Addie has also had her first word...Daddy. We are in the planning stages of the first birthday party. Fun times ahead.
Friday, November 02, 2007
Monkey Business
Thought I would give you a quick update as to what's going on around here. Chris just finished a big competition project at work that lasted 3 weeks. No news yet on whether they got the job or not. We are also in the beginning stages of a new ministry, Celebrate Recovery. It would take a lot of blog space to tell you all that's in our hearts, but you can be praying for us and wisdom in this area.
Addie has begun to crawl on her knees about half the time. She also still pulls herself across the floor while pushing with her toes. She can also pull up on furniture (up to her knees anyway). Sometimes she screams with frustration because she wants to be standing but doesn't know how to get there. It's only a matter of time, I tell her. Her appetite and eating habits are also maturing. Half of her diet is now food chunks. I introduced the sippy cup and she is NOT interested at all. Most excitingly, she had her first word...Daddy. Apparently Chris has been coaching her behind my back. Oh well. It was a great surprise for me.
Ava had a great potty day today. She woke up this morning and asked for "no diapers". So we spent the day in big girl pants and she did wonderfully. She was really good about reminding me of her chocolate treat after she voided. Her sentences went something like this: "potty mama chocolate pretzel candy" with no pauses or hesitations. She knew what she was entitled to.
We has a successful Trunk or Treat night with the girls. Ava was a monkey and Addie was a purple dinosaur (not barney) with bright orange spikes. Ava walked away with more candy from about 10-15 cars than she would have in an hour around a neighborhood. She also got to throw pennies in a pumpkin, pumpkin bowl (and she got an awesome spare), and a pumpkin ring toss. Next year I think we will go church party hopping.
Friday, October 26, 2007
Date Night
Penny is coming into town tonight because I will be gone tomorrow and Chris has to work. So, Chris and I are taking a date night. What better way to spend it then sitting together and laughing at Steve Carell.
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Global Impact Celebration 2007
Every year our church in Chapel Hill has a party for all our missionaries overseas. It's more than a welcome home party, it's a celebration of what God is doing through our gift offerings and their life of service. We have people in Central Asia, Cuba, Romania, Virginia, South Carolina, and in the Triangle area represented this year. Tonight we had our opening ceremony and it was stated that we are involved in building the Kingdom in 44 different countries. WOW! This is the first church I have ever me that sends over half its revenue out for different missions work, local and foreign.
I've really gotten excited about what's happening. We heard tonight from a member of Grace who is a cranial/facial surgeon. He does surgery on children who don't have noses or ears, or even cleft pallets. He has been recently been going to the West Bank and doing these surgeries for free. God has really used him to open doors for the Gospel in the Jewish and Muslim world.
We also have a full time pastor who has been making dangerous visits to Pakistan. He's been meeting with government officials as well as training up pastors and leaders for the underground church. God is doing many good works across the globe and I'm honored to be a part of that.
Friday, October 19, 2007
Favorites
I thought I would share a few of Ava's favorite sentences and topics of discussion with you:
"Watch a mooovie"
"Lumpy stuck in the cage." --Referencing "Pooh's Heffalump Movie" (her favorite)
"Pooh fall down in the honey pot."-- same movie
"That's much better."--the first time she said this she removed a slice of cheese from her sandwich and bit into it.
"That's fine."--one of her affirmative answers
"Keep pants on"--after I corrected her once for taking her diaper off in her crib
"Play Peoples"--Little People playset by Fisher Price
"Big poo-poo"--I think this one is obvious
"Ava fall down on the rocks"--she fell once in the gravel driveway months ago and still talks about it.
"Addie fall on her face and get a big boo-boo"--speaking mostly about hypothetical situations in which Addie could fall and get hurt.
"Stop screaming"--she yells this to Addie when Addie is upset.
"Daddy's big truck"--whenever she sees any truck anywhere.
She also has her favorite songs (most of which she can sing by herself):
Jesus Loves Me
Twinkle Twinkle Little Star
Sunshine Mountain
The Wheels on the Bus
ABC's
As her language becomes more sophisticated, her personality is shining brighter and brighter. She brings a lot of joy into our family.
"Watch a mooovie"
"Lumpy stuck in the cage." --Referencing "Pooh's Heffalump Movie" (her favorite)
"Pooh fall down in the honey pot."-- same movie
"That's much better."--the first time she said this she removed a slice of cheese from her sandwich and bit into it.
"That's fine."--one of her affirmative answers
"Keep pants on"--after I corrected her once for taking her diaper off in her crib
"Play Peoples"--Little People playset by Fisher Price
"Big poo-poo"--I think this one is obvious
"Ava fall down on the rocks"--she fell once in the gravel driveway months ago and still talks about it.
"Addie fall on her face and get a big boo-boo"--speaking mostly about hypothetical situations in which Addie could fall and get hurt.
"Stop screaming"--she yells this to Addie when Addie is upset.
"Daddy's big truck"--whenever she sees any truck anywhere.
She also has her favorite songs (most of which she can sing by herself):
Jesus Loves Me
Twinkle Twinkle Little Star
Sunshine Mountain
The Wheels on the Bus
ABC's
As her language becomes more sophisticated, her personality is shining brighter and brighter. She brings a lot of joy into our family.
Friday, October 12, 2007
Has it been 10 years already?
Chris has his 10 high school reunion on Saturday. The girls will be staying with Mimi and Papa in W-S while we go. I can't believe we've been out of high school for 10 years already. I have to admit that I'm a little self-conscious about going. I suspect that these reunions are about where everyone has landed (work, hobbies, marriage, kids). So, I feel like I'm going to be "on stage" (as I like to call it) as evidence of what's happened to Chris since high school. It seems weird to me at the moment.
More Changes
Addie is now doing a worm crawl through the house. She inches her bum into the air and pushes off with her toes while pulling with her arms. It's hilarious! Addie has also gotten her first 2 teeth and is eating real solid food. That's all.
Friday, October 05, 2007
Ava's longest sentence...
It's time that Chris move Addie's crib mattress down a notch now that she can sit up from a lying down position by herself. I was explaining to Ava why Daddy had to do this. Her response was "Addie fall out of her crib and have a big boo boo on her face." She repeated this sentence probably 100x.
Goodbye Running
I think I had posted before that I had started running. It was cheap convenient exercise. I think that some people just weren't built to run. I would be one of those people. I never really enjoyed it. I found myself getting really bored after about 5 min. I had my iPod and was running in pretty green areas. Didn't matter. So, when I hurt my leg it was no biggie for me to give it up. I was kind of relieved in a way. We decided to extend our YMCA membership to include the whole family. Now I can do whatever exercise I want. It's a great stress reliever.
Sunday, September 30, 2007
The New Addie
I feel like she's changed so much in the past couple weeks. She managed to wean herself (against my own liking) completely Friday morning. She started slowly loosing interest in nursing a few months ago and now she has finally kicked the habit. Addie has also developed her own method of getting around. She drags herself from toy to toy and room to room pusing with her toes and pulling with her hands. She's going to have very strong big toes by the time she starts walking. Lastly, I noticed this morning that she has her first tooth. It looks like it just broke through. Our little girl is growing so fast.
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Tues
I get to go see Dave Mathews Band with my sister on Tues night. Yeah! Girl's night, live music, no babies. I'm very excited.
Addie tries beans
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Cart Racing at VIR
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Growing Healthy Marriages
Chris and I are co-leading a small group with our pastor and 2 other couples in the church this year (Sept-Dec, Feb-May). We have our first meeting tomorrow night. At the small group fair we had 12 couples sign up (in addition to the leadership team of 4 couples). That's a lot of people. Pastor Jim thought there would even be a couple more coming. Yowza! That makes me excited and nervous, but mainly excited. We decided to meet at the church and watch the Love and Respect video as a large group and the break off into 4 smaller discussion groups afterwards. So, we are essentially leading our own small Small Group this semester. It's not what I thought we were agreeing to, but I'm encouraged knowing that a lot of couples are eager to learn and that God is moving in this area. I'm a willing participant.
We will also be mixing in Ladies' nights, Men's night, cookouts, bonfires, retreats, and other social gatherings. Apparently we have lots and lots of new families coming into the church and there is a real need for this sort of thing. So, our goal is to digest the Love and Respect information and to also form some networks of support for the couples involved. It's so vital to have lots of friends on the side of your marriage; continuously helping and praying for you.
We've had to find a regular committed babysitter for the girls. I think we have found one. Tomorrow night is her trial run. She'll decide for certain after that. The girls seem to like her and she came highly recommended. I'm keeping my fingers crossed and knees bowed for this one.
We will also be mixing in Ladies' nights, Men's night, cookouts, bonfires, retreats, and other social gatherings. Apparently we have lots and lots of new families coming into the church and there is a real need for this sort of thing. So, our goal is to digest the Love and Respect information and to also form some networks of support for the couples involved. It's so vital to have lots of friends on the side of your marriage; continuously helping and praying for you.
We've had to find a regular committed babysitter for the girls. I think we have found one. Tomorrow night is her trial run. She'll decide for certain after that. The girls seem to like her and she came highly recommended. I'm keeping my fingers crossed and knees bowed for this one.
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
When Chris/Daddy's Away...
I try to stay active in hopes that I won't really notice too much. It doesn't work that well, but the girls and I have fun regardless. He was out of town yesterday and is heading home tonight. Yesterday we ran lots of errands and had a dinner picnic in the living room while watching The Heffalump Movie starring Winnie the Pooh. Today we had book club/play group at a friend's house and then went to the mall in the afternoon. We all rode the carousel together and had some DQ. We are now getting ready for bath and bed. I'll be anticipating Chris's arrival around 10:30 tonight. Hopefully, I'll still be awake.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Father Daughter Dance
Monday, August 20, 2007
New Pictures
My apologies for the long delay. New pictures are posted in both kids folders and the digi pics 2007 folder. Keep a look out for pictures of the finished bedroom project coming soon.
Old Friends
We had an old college friend of mine (and her sweetheart) over after church yesterday. I haven't seen her since the baby shower my parents threw for me right before Ava was born. Prior to that it was Oct 2003. Even though we are both in totally different places since our last visit, it's like no time has passed at all. I love friendships like that. She's living in Greensboro now so hopefully I'll be seeing lots more of her.